Dear Connie:

If you are to become friends with him, if it is to be a quality friendship, you will ask him questions I suppose, like what he is looking for in a friendship, and what he is  looking for in a relationship, and he will ask you the same things. You will exchange information, true information about each other, get to know each other as friends.

Why not ask him a question, when he says something and you don’t know what he meant by what he said, ask him..?

anita