Dear curiousknowledgeseeker:

If I understand correctly, the plan is to not have your sister in law in your house at all- I suggested the same in your previous thread- congratulations to you and your husband making the correct choice as a team!

How to explain it to your in-laws? Tell them it is the right thing for your health, and the health of your husband.. and the health of your baby to not have  your SIL in your home. If they ask why it is so, tell them it is bad for your health to talk about it, that it makes you distressed. Tell them that you will appreciate it  if they don’t ask you about her, or talk about her in your home.

I hope they will care about the health of their hosts (you and your husband) and respect their hosts’ wishes. Otherwise, they will be very rude guests…

anita