We have talked numerous times about having him go to the Dr to get an official diagnosis of ADHD & Anxiety – he is totally willing to go and take medication. The problem is, he has no health insurance and is so cheap he wouldn’t pay out of pocket. He is so far removed from what the rest of us pay for. I told him he could get state insurance through the “obamacare” in CT for $250.00 per month and he basically said he would never ever ever pay anything like that for insurance. I told him I work for a corporation and am part of a plan and I STILL pay $220 per month! He’s got a distorted view of reality. I’ve also offered to find him a doctor etc. and I also told him I take his anxiety seriously and would support him if he needed to get on medication. I also encourage him to change his habits so his sleep would improve (better sleep = better mindset), go to the gym with me (i go 4 – 5 times per week) and cut back on drinking and I’ve tried meditating with him etc. but we only see each other 2 -3 times each week so I don’t know what he does/does not do for the rest of the time.  Sometimes I think he thinks I’m crazy for being in tune with my mind & body….