Gia, I’m curious if you have experimented with any of these suggestions?

Two things come to mind for me.

1) Please stay aware of your triggers and desires around the substance abuse. Reach out to someone if you feel like relapse is possible.

2) You are entitled to your physical space, I am a lot like you and sometimes I forget that I deserve to stand tall, own the ground i’m standing on, and don’t need to tolerate disrespect. Even just the act of telling her outloud, that you see what she is doing and that you don’t like it, might be incredibly empowering for you and might take the wind out of her sails.