Anita that is a great idea. I will try that. I get where that makes both of them nervous. And i am willing to meet with them both. I have been asking about this since i found out about her being around my son without my knowledge. He keeps delaying it or saying I am just trying to intimidate her. I have never done anything towards her. I think hes afraid of anything coming out about our past. Which i would never bring up it doesn’t have anything to do with our son. He tries to keep away from her and almost like hides her. But i will try to have us all sit down and talk!