Dear gj:

Well, if it will be better for them.. I am tired at the moment and will soon be away from the computer for a while. I feel confused at the moment, maybe you can explain it to me:

if it is better for your family that you don’t live with them and you are unhappy living there, I suppose the only reason you are not moving away is that you are scared to, scared life will be worse for you if you move. Is that precisely what your fear is about?

anita