Dear Christine:

If he is a professional football player and a successful one and. maybe on top of it good looking and charming, then it means that he will be getting a lot of offers from young, attractive women. This makes a short distance exclusive relationship a significant challenge, and a long distance exclusive relationship even  more challenging.

I am sure there are men out there who are capable and able to have an exclusive relationship with a woman while exposed daily to offers by other women, but what are the chances-

– maybe you can ask him: what are the chances?

anita