Dear Lily:

You are welcome. I am glad you won’t let K back into your life. I understand you feeling unhappy about having allowed these men use you and I hope this unhappiness will prevent it from happening again.

K used you for his needs selfishly, taking advantage of your inability at the time to evaluate the situation correctly and act and react for your best interest, just like the dormitory guy did, in essence.

The reason I feel so strongly about this, Lily, is that I was used too, the same ways you were used. What happened to you happened to me too.

anita