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Dear leanna:
Reads to me that this man is impulsive. What you see one day, within let’s say an hour, is gone the next day, maybe sooner. What is true this moment is forgotten the next.
So let’s say he meets you and makes a connection that “nice fun evening, just drinks…”, the two of you drink, the alcohol loosens his tension, he feels nice, and he gets “all deep… asking me some questions”, listens to you, feels close, you ask him what he wants and the first thing that comes to his (uninhibited) brain is: I want your heart! So he says it, and he acts affectionate for the rest of the evening.
The next day, the alcohol is gone, and he doesn’t feel what he felt the evening before. Then you contact him and he is annoyed, he doesn’t want to question his behavior, he doesn’t want to answer your questions, he doesn’t want the inconvenience of all this, so he tells you what he tells you so to end his discomfort.
What do you think?
anita