I wanted to give you an update on how things went 🙂 One word: AMAZING! All the worries I had were gone by the time I picked him up at the airport, and the following 4 days together have been wonderful. It was only a few days, but we connected just like we both thought before we were meeting, and we had so much fun. He truly is an amazing man and got all the qualities that I always wished for in my “ultimate” man. We toured Venice and then drove back up to my place where we spent the remaining time together. I showed him my city and he loved it! Summarized, it was even better than we both anticipated and when he left, we were both sure that this just was the start to something rare and unique.

Fast-forward, three weeks later, I am set to visit him on April 23 and I will stay there for a week. We have been video chatting and texting every day and it has developed beautifully between us. He even wants us to go tour different areas around New York City because he wants to move somewhere outside of Manhattan and rent a bigger apartment. He said he wanted me to come over so we can spend extended time together to find out if we’re truly compatible for a life together. So the plan is that we will check out different areas to see where we both would like it. My job allows me to work remotely, so I could go visit him for 3 months at a time. He also is about to start a project that would allow him to spend the summer here in Austria with me, which would be amazing. We both are so in love with each other and I know that he must be the One for me. He is so mature and knows what he wants, but yet very reasonable and so loving and kind. I know this has been a whirlwind and it’s been only 2 months, but the way things are developing is just beautiful and we both just let it happen. We’re both not spring chicken anymore and know when we see something good, and he definitely is a good man. I have never been so happy in my life and feel as if finally I have met the man I am supposed to be with. What I love so much about him – among all his other beautiful traits – is that he initiates things and communicates with me like I haven’t experienced before with any man. He expresses his feelings to me, we talk about everything and he is also a great listener. What can I say..I am am blown away by his personality and am so grateful to God that He finally brought this man into my life.

Thank you again for your advice, I really am grateful that you were there when I was still confused about this 🙂 Thank God it turned out I was worrying for nothing!