Dear Connie:

A short summary of this very short not-relationship-yet: Feb 25-26, you wrote: “Long story short, he explained that he couldn’t give me what I was looking for… He said he realized we were not align on where we stand in a relationship”.

At some point you told him that you will wait for him three weeks. He didn’t contact you during those three weeks or in more than a week after.

I suggest that you remind him of this history, of what he said (above) and ask him if he had a change of mind and heart about it.  If there is a need (depending on his answer), bring up the three weeks waiting time which he ignored and asks him about that too.

It may be his choice to ignore what he said and what you said, but it doesn’t need to be your choice as well. Being proactive, you .. don’t ignore important things to you because he chooses to ignore them.

anita