Dear blkhwkdwn1:

“I had my time with her, it’s over now. My problem is my feelings I have inside… not for her but probably an idea… I am obsessed with ending this because I want this pain inside of me to go away, I want it to stop lingering and consuming me. I can’t get rid of it”-

– the idea is the desire to love and be loved in return. The pain inside is not having this idea in your life, your desire being unfulfilled.

This means you are a loving man, you need to love and be loved in return. If it is not her, if friendship with her is not enough and/ or is not possible then … someone else, another woman.

Question is: what is it that is in your way of getting your desire fulfilled. If you want to look into this, what is in your way, write to me about it and we’ll go from there. If you want to, of course.

anita

had my time with her, it’s over now. My problem is my feelings I have inside…not for her but probably an idea. I KNOW we don’t match well but I enjoy her company, normally. I am obsessed with ending this because I want this pain inside of me to go away, I want it to stop lingering and consuming me. I can’t get rid of it, but getting rid of her may at least make it somewhat lesser.