Dear Karlie:

Often enough, we wish we could undo and redo what is already done and we can’t. There is pain and great sadness in accepting this reality. It reminds me of the famous line of the serenity prayer:

“grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change”- what you did and can’t undo, your marriage ending.

Another line says:

(grant me) “the courage to change the things I can”- yourself and your relationships with your kids.

Please do share more, anything at all.

anita