Dear V:

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words.

Your ex boyfriend’s “logical mind allowed me to have a place to share all my feelings in a safe way”- similar to sharing your feelings with a robot of sorts- problem is that his feelings were shut down  and this is why it felt off to you. It really was off.

Your current boyfriend, he is emotional, good thing. Now all the two of you have to learn (and it can easily done in quality couple therapy) is how to communicate with each other so that no one burdens anyone. I can share with you what I learned in couple therapy in this regard.

I will be away from the computer soon for about 15 hours or so. When I am back, if you post more, I will read and reply further.

anita