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September 13, 2019 at 4:56 pm
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Dear lana:
Reads to me that “the switch” you are experiencing is the shift from love to fear, back and forth. It is common to crave love and fear it the same time. Love feels so good so we want more of it, but then we get scared of losing it.
When we fear losing a man’s love, we stop feeling the love for him first, so that we don’t get hurt when he stops loving us.
Does that make sense to you?
(I will be back in about 13 hours from now).
anita