Also, another reason I was confused was because he had been drinking and was talking in circles so I was getting bits and pieces of the story. I think this really played a part in the communication breakdown. I clearly know the difference in how he talks when he’s sober.

I think I’m trying to find a balance on how to handle situations because I’ve had a history of running. We can agree to disagree but again dealing with him in this capacity is still fairly new for me. I just want things to be fair and balanced.