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If she did come back I would of course question and say we have to take things slow. That was the plan originally. When we broke up She told me that one minute, she’d want to slow things down and the next she’d want to speed things up. But she knew that I wanted more so she did it for me. When actually I always told her we can go as slow as was needed. She was the one who suggested we become official and book vacations together. I wanted a relationship, but I wanted a relationship with her. I wanted to do the right thing for her from the very beginning. I wanted to show her that no one cares for her like I did. And I know I treated her better than anyone ever has in her life.
I know in the first two weeks of the breakup, I made the mistake of reaching out too much. Because I was obviously scared to lose her and I wanted to convince her that this isn’t what she was thinking. Based on what I’ve said, does anyone think it’s something that can’t be recovered from?