Dear Vesper:

About guilt- for hurting and for not noticing and helping those we love most who depend on us so much- I share this too, and it is a pain I have to endure because there is nothing I can do about it, no way to undo and redo. But I can forgive myself because I am devoted to healing and learning every day (this is what I am doing there, on tiny buddha)-

– healing so that I can see beyond my powerful emotions from childhood, so that I can see other people as they are and not (inaccurately) project myself into others. I am earning my self forgiveness through this hard work of healing. That is all I can do.

Let’s continue to talk about this, if you want to.

anita