Dear PikeMan:

You are welcome. I think that the distance approach is more likely to get you what you want. I wouldn’t take a rude-distance approach, that might not work with a “very stubborn and prideful” woman. Present to her the idea of her having her own bedroom for the time being as something that she may prefer, something that will make her more comfortable. And be nice about it and throughout the distance period of time.

The distance should not be presented and delivered as punishment, but as a way for her to feel more comfortable. Within this distance, you can still eat together, or watch TV or whatnot, so the two of you will still be living in the same house and interacting. But the distance should be significant enough to make a difference for her.

And again, within this distance, a spark may be ignited. Or something like a spark, warm and cozy- maybe that will be good enough for  her.

anita