Dear White Desann:

It was a delight reading your post: so intelligent, articulate, witty, your intelligence and education shine through. And you wrote that you are “reasonably fit and not hard to look at”, and to top all  of this, you are “reasonably wealthy”?

My goodness, I don’t think you are aware of your advantages in the dating scene, online and otherwise. Reads like you are a hidden treasure that many women would be delighted to discover. I’d say that for as long as the woman you are seeing is seeing someone else as well, for as long as her dating profile is still active, that you too see other women. Meet them for coffee or tea, for a conversation, nothing hot and heavy. See online dating as opportunities to interview and be interviewed for a potential romantic relationship, in an honest, kind and respectful way.

anita