Dear Lola:

I don’t know if you read my second post to you, my reply to your post to me?

To further make my point: the reason I think you should not continue this relationship is not because of considerations of who’s-the-bad-guy in what happened (clearly the two of you contributed to this relationship not working for you), but because you need to heal individually – continuing a sick relationship will make your individual healing very difficult and maybe impossible.

Does this make sense to you?

anita