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rocketgirl,
It’s been 6 months since you’re in this relationship. They recently told you that they are not comfortable at expressing emotions. You’re questioning whether or not you should keep going with them. I didn’t get some part of your question. What was it directed at?
Are you having an internal conflict due to their belief of emotions being a weakness, and fear their capacity to handle a romantic relationship with this attitude. Or is there something that doesn’t add up in your mind about them, or you two’s chemistry overall.
LDRs are quite strenuous. It’s also easy to overthink, since you cannot see that person that often you cannot judge each other’s moods or personalities in general. There’s so much going behind the curtains. Make sure you’re not overthinking.
My advice would be: If you’re genuinely concerned about their existence in your life, ask yourself if you would like to keep going (plus the effort) Try having another personal talk with them then, if your mind says yes.
(I wish the best for you. Apologies for something that shouldn’t have been mentioned)
Bless you
Regards,
Javairia