Dear Sloppy_dreams:

You asked: “If something like this happened to you as well, can you please share your thoughts on it?”- but I don’t know enough about what it is that happened, or that you made happen.

You wrote “She doesn’t feel the same way. I hid my feelings and assured her that I was not in love with her”-

– did you find out that she didn’t feel the same way before or after you hid your feelings for her?

– did she ask you to assure her that you were not in love with her?

anita