Dear Elizabeth:

There is no option here to message privately and I don’t want to do so over private email. I hope you can share here without giving identifiable information such as names of people and places, exact ages and so forth. I’ve been very active on this website for years, under my real name (same as my screen name), sharing personal information and not a single person in my life outside this website knows about my participation here. So I think you are quite safe.

anita