Dear Chloe:

“his gf reached out to me to inform me that I have been lied to for the past 6 m and she was trying to get him back“- he didn’t lie to you for the past six months because she wasn’t his girlfriend during these six months. If she was, she wouldn’t be trying to get him back. She was trying to get him back because he was gone from her, that is, they broke up and therefore she tried to get him back.

If you look at the title of your thread: “He cheated on his ex with me”- he couldn’t have cheated on his ex, because you can’t cheat on an ex. A man can cheat on a current girlfriend, not on an ex girlfriend.

He had a girlfriend, they broke up, he met you, then she wanted him back, and he eventually went back to her, and they are together for now, until the next time they break up.

I am sorry you feel hurt and I hope you feel better very soon. Please do post again anytime. It may help you feel better to type away your thoughts and feelings here.

I will be back to the computer in about ten hours from now, and will be glad to read from you anytime.

anita