Dear Chloe:

You are welcome. I understand that he cheated on her with you and cheated on you with her, but at times they broke up and during those times he didn’t cheat on her or on you.

When she told you that they “just had rocky times”, this means they broke up from time to time, or had fights and didn’t know if there will be a getting back together, then some time passes, they get back together. Looking back she called it “rocky times”.

I don’t think it is a good idea to take what his now girlfriend said to you as the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. After all, she is a troubled woman, to want back a man who cheated her so many times, according to her words. Part of what she told you may not be true.

You wrote: “it was so perfect until the very last minute”- how was it perfect, and did he share with you anything about his life?

anita