Hi anita,

Yes you are right here

‘I don’t think it is a good idea to take what his now girlfriend said to you as the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. After all, she is a troubled woman, to want back a man who cheated her so many times, according to her words. Part of what she told you may not be true.

You wrote: “it was so perfect until the very last minute”- how was it perfect, and did he share with you anything about his life?’

I found it hard to believe fully he and she said as there were many mismatches in each of their version. Since then I didnt have a chance to talk to them in person as Im far away for a long time so I eventually didnt know the full truth which I truly wanted to. When he explicitly mentioned he couldnt cut ties with her, I know its no long worthy to get involved in anything so we broke up via text…but deep down inside, I would like to know the truth, what should I do now.