Dear Chloe:

“I believed that she has no incentives to lie”- yes she does, her incentive is to get him back, to discourage you from going after him. If she makes you believe that they never broke up, that would make you feel more deceived than you were, and so angry that you will not want him back and then, she can have him back.

Reads to me that within the six months of your relationship with him, at times he was single, that is, he was not in a relationship with her (they were broken up).

I don’t know why she has been chasing him. Maybe like you she thinks that “it was so perfect until..” this or that happened (and keeps happening). A delusion of perfection that she wants to get back.

anita