I am quite similar in some respects to my father-an introvert, quiet, anxious. He struggled with some traumas in life, but always had the strength to ask for help when he needed it. That is something that will stay with me. Also how he was able to quit smoking and drinking when I was very young, that is something I am very grateful for.

He was very frugal, resourceful and did carpentry as a hobby. He could fix broken things and made myself and my siblings furniture. I have several pieces he made for me. He was very skilled in woodworking. He loved the outdoors.

When I needed something, if he had it he would say take it. He was very generous with his time and what he had. Before my recent move I would visit him a couple times a week and he would prepare a nice meal for us to enjoy, or we’d prepare something together. He was especially good at baking bread and cooking soups. He also had gardens every year and shared the produce with the family.

Mostly I miss talking to him and being able to see him. He was really good at listening, and knowing when you just needed to vent and when you needed advice.