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I feel as though I have been ghosted too by my boyfriend who I have been dating for almost a year now. Everything was fine we were even supposed to spend a weekend away together last week which ended up falling through because he had work. I texted him in response to that that I knew we were not going to make the trip because it was the day before and he hadn’t confirmed the hotel plans but what should I do with what I had gotten for him? No response. Sent him a good morning text a couple of days later. No response. My aunt had ended up passing a couple of days later I reached out to him and let him know that I needed him and a little support in the situation no response. I sign in and out of social media’s and I happened to log into my Instagram to find that he had posted a story. I was so hurt. How can someone who “loves me” not only ignore my messages but have no empathy or care that I had lost a family member? I mean that was the ultimate heart break. Him not replying before seemed small compared to this. I’ve been ghosted before in my last relationship but the mistake I made was allowing the person back in my life. I don’t necessarily want to end this relationship but I definitely should. What he did was not only cowardly but heartless. The problem now is not his reason on why he hasn’t responded but how I’m going to move forward and let this go. Needless to say I am hurt.