Dear Serkan:

Thank you for your kind words. I am trying to understand your five examples, they are not clear. Please  go over the following, fill in the empty spaces, and answer my questions.

1. She wanted to go to a specific restaurant but you didn’t want to go to it because it was too far away. So you told her that the restaurant is too far away.What did she say when you told her it is too far?

2. She told you about a scene in a romantic movie that she likes, and you said the following comment: ________. She then didn’t talk to you for a day or two.

3. She likes toast with jam. You tried it and liked it, so you told her with a smile that you liked it. This is what you said to her: _______ with a smile. She then got angry with you, saying “everyone has their own pleasure”.

Why was she angry???

4. She told you about one of her favorite poets, and you said the following unpleasant comment about the poet: _______________. She then said: “none of your business!

5. You asked her what she fears and she said dogs. You then asked her: _____________ and she didn’t respond to you and was distant from you for a few days.

Serkan, please put in the time and the effort to write clearly. I don’t want to work this hard to understand you in the future when it is possible for you to write more clearly.

anita