Dear Joakim:

When you asked a therapist if it would be wrong to talk to your mother about it and the therapist said that she doesn’t know your mother, and therefore she doesn’t know the answer to your question. I think her answer was a good answer, but I can go a step further and ask you a few questions about your mother so to get to know a bit about her, and maybe I will be able to suggest a reasonable answer to you.

When you were 14 and you peaked at your mother not fully dressed, she angrily asked you: “Have you ever seen women before?”- I don’t understand her question- did she suggest that she expected you to have seen by that point other naked women- in movies or magazines, or having had girlfriends?

anita