Dear Joakim:

You don’t know what she meant by what she said. Do you know sometimes what she means when she says things to you, and if the answer is yes, will you tell me what your mother told you over the years that you do understand?

If you choose to answer my question, please take your time, don’t rush.

(I am asking about your mother so to understand her a bit and figure out if it is a good idea for you to speak to her, and if you speak to her, then what is the best way to do so).

anita