Dear SearchForSelfPeace:

I hope you do start counseling by the end of this month and that it will be a good experience for you. And no, I am not angry at you for writing only when you are sad or depressed. Please do write when you are sad or depressed, write anytime you want to write. Thank you for caring enough to assure me that you will write back to me and not ghost me, how kind of you!

Regarding your flat mate, to comment on him/ your situation with him, I will need more details:

1. What was that big argument six months ago between you and him, what was argued, and how, what did you say and do, what did he say and do?

2. Can you give me 3 examples of how he tried to tick you off since that argument, what did he say or do to tick you off?

3. After you did the house chores for almost a month and in return, he mocked you- what did he say or do that you that you believe is mocking you?

anita