Dear Bell:

You are welcome, and thank you for your appreciation. Reads fair to me that you shared with him about what was happening in your daily life. He shared with you, you shared with him.

“the blaming part comes in when I share negative things happening that could partly be my fault. and he would start to point out all the wrongs I did even though there is a whole load  of other factors that could cause the situation”-

– if you want to give me an example of a negative situation that you shared with him, and what he said in response, please do.

Did you notice him pointing to the wrongs that he did in the life situations that he shared with you, or did he point to others as the ones in the wrong?

anita