Dear Luli:

You wrote in today’s thread,  about your current boyfriend that he’s been your boyfriend for three years by this point: “our relationship (3 years now)”- so I figure the relationship started three years before March 2020 which would be about March 2017. If the boyfriend you shared about in your Feb 2017 thread is different from the current one, then doing the math, that relationship ended a month following that thread, and your new relationship started right after that, making it three years to today. And it means that the boyfriend you shared about in Dec 2018, the one who  yelled at you, is your current boyfriend (unless you have more than one boyfriend at one time, or you are on and off with two or more boyfriend in a period of time).

If your current boyfriend is the same man who yelled at you and maybe still yells at you, better you to “take a break” from him, and a permanent one.

anita