Dear kiwiboy0897:

Emotional cheating is ongoing flirting, beyond a moment of flirting (everyone is impulsive at times, so a flirting comment might just come out of our mouths, or a flirting look happen before we know it, so this is not emotional cheating). Emotional cheating would be then repeatedly flirting with someone using flirtatious, suggestive words, as well as looks, smiles and such.

Anything beyond flirting, that is, sending naked photos/ videos, having telephone or cybersex, that is hard core emotional/ sexual cheating.

Meeting someone of the sex we are attracted to, behind our partner’s back, without our partner’s knowledge, talking with that person about our partner in ways we wouldn’t talk if our partner was there, that is emotional cheating as well.

That’s what comes to my mind at this point. I will be back to the computer in less than a couple of hours.

anita