Brace yourself for my view. You don’t have real gratitude because if you did you wouldn’t be asking this question particularly whilst we are going through a pandemic of this scale which will change life as we know it.

What can I do to appreciate this “wonderful…man?” Ask yourself if you were to lose him tomorrow to coronavirus would you be devastated or sit there thinking Never mind, it’s ok he’s gone as we had lost the honeymoon phase of a relationship (which everyone does.)

Don’t take for granted what you have because when you lose it and find it was irreplaceable it will be to late. You’ll have no choice but to accept that situation.

Stop asking for more, more and more. Count your blessings. If as you said you have a wonderful, intelligent man in front of you who loves you, discuss it with him or even surprise him, spice it up. You have half the control of your physical relationship. It’s not hard when you have two adults who love each other to inject that in.