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Adelaide, it is not a blanket approach nor do I wish force it upon anyone. We are all adults and have a choice. I’m giving a different perspective.
I have faced severe trauma in life so am well aware of complexities one can face and how some people suffer more than others. I am assuming you have some pre existing condition or ailment thus your life is not valued or put first, you would not be chosen to be saved over others- I am in the exact same position. Your main focus is to survive. Rightly it should be. My main focus is to survive but if I don’t which is a high likelihood to leave an impact behind – encourage people to respect the gift of life. To invoke change in people’s attitudes. I’m trying to get people to understand the fleeting nature of life and be happy. So if they do survive this pandemic their life isnt spent with anxiety or sadness. It is spent with more self worth, contentment and a belief to be better/do better as some of us won’t get that chance. I’m being realistic about life. The positions we put ourselves in are a result of our own actions and negative trail of thoughts.
I’m encouraging people to deal with life in a more positive way. If you do not wish to heed any of my advice that is your choice and you are 100% entitled to but it may resonate with someone else who will put forth the tips and hopefully lead a more content life. I wish you well and hope you find inner peace and happiness in whichever way you can. Please of anything do not shame yourself. That is not what my message is intending. Every moment on this earth should be considered a privilege.