Dear Tee:

I will be glad to learn more about you and share with you what I think may help you from what I learned in my experience with an excellent psychotherapist that I’ve seen for over two years, 2011-13, and from that time onward. It will take time, but if you are willing, I am.

If you want to share with me more about the relationship between your parents, please do. Share not how you interpret that relationship now, but what you saw/ heard/ felt about their relationship back then, when you were a child.

Also, did your mother, who was loving to you, noticed that you were distressed witnessing her relationship with your father; did she try to change that relationship so that you get that safe feeling that every child needs?

(if you reply, I will read and reply to you in about 12 hours from now).

anita