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Dear Sky:
Reads to me that you are depressed at this time. When we are depressed, we don’t experience joy, so you don’t feel any joy when you think of your girlfriend, that is understandable.
I wouldn’t tell her that you don’t feel love for her anymore. I’d tell her, if I was you, that “I have no interest in anything… can’t find joy in music or social media or videos”. Share with her what you feel about life (not specifically about her), maybe you will feel better if you do. But share responsibly with her: not going on and on and on, not blaming her for how you feel, not expecting her to fix how you feel, so that she doesn’t get overwhelmed.
The time to share with her what you feel about her is when some joy returns to your life, not now when you are joyless, or depressed.
What do you think?
anita