Dear Grace:

Before you figure if you want to “give him another change”, or to “never respond”, or to “kind of tell him off” (the three options you came up with), ask him questions!

Over the phone, or in person (not over text), ask him why did he grab your butt in public all those times, ask him what was his intention when he did that, ask him if he did that to other girls too, and if he feels fine with it.

Ask him, and let me know what answer he gave you, will you?

anita