Dear Sanita:

Even if he is telling the truth, it is not a good situation for you because he is legally married, and is in a troublesome relationship with his legal wife and he may be in trouble with the law.

You are doubting that he told you all the truth you need to know (“as per his story”).

Here is a scenario where my empathy would be with him: if he knew a child that was suffering abuse, and the only way for him to protect that child from abuse was to adopt the child..

– do you know why he felt such a strong need to adopt this child?

anita