Dear Cali21:

Him being in his early 60s, having low testosterone and high blood pressure is important information in the quest of trying to understand him and the situation.

“He bragged plenty how he couldn’t take his hands off his ex girlfriend”- bragged plenty– that’s  insensitive, even cruel.

Can you tell me what did you say to him over the years regarding your sexual dissatisfaction and his unsatisfying performance?  (There is a possibility that you were insensitive to him as well, and maybe he reacted to your insensitivity with his own).

* I wish I didn’t have to ask questions on a matter that is so personal, but there is no way for me to understand better if I don’t ask. Answer only if you feel comfortable answering.

anita