Dear User34:

You wrote that in the beginning of the relationship he was living with his parents, and that he was depressed and considered suicide. You wrote then that you “communicated with his friends and family about this”, this being his depression, suicidal ideation and drinking.

To understand better, I ask: do you mean that you talked to his parents about his depression etc., and if so: were the talks done in your boyfriend’s presence, what is it that you told his parents, and what was your boyfriend’s reaction to you talking to his parents about him?

anita