Dear User34:

I don’t know if you became part of the problem for him. What I am saying is that if his parents were a problem for him, and if you joined his parents as a team, then you became a problem for him.

He’s been troubled for a while, depressed, “has a few problems and fights with coworkers, parents.. and soon we started to fight too”, later he was excited about therapy, then he broke up with you, then moved in with a female co worker, if I understand correctly, who may be his lover.

A very depressed person gets desperate, reaching out for anything that will make him/ her feel better. I wish he did sit and talk with you, so that you can have the opportunity to understand what motivated him to break up with you.

Did he refuse to have such a conversation with you?

anita