Dear Deblina:

His parents didn’t raise him to be an independent, strong man who  will take a stand against them. They raised him as an owned individual; they own him. He doesn’t like it that they own him, that’s why he is angry, but he feels too guilty to break away from them.

So he obeyed them and directed his anger not at his owners, but at you.

As to your question, each individual should stand up for themselves and their partner, yes. Problem is that his parents are his.. Partner. And they will allow him the woman that they want for him.

anita