Dear Giminie:

You are welcome and thank you for your good wishes.

Your boyfriend’s family seem to be nice people. I am trying to understand:

What are your current plans: when is your brother scheduled to graduate and when will you be done paying for his schooling?

Will you be living at your grandaunt until  when? Working in Singapore until when?

Are you considering taking on your boyfriend’s offer to pay for your brother’s studies?

Are you considering living with your boyfriend, or with his family.. or with your family in Malaysia, and if so, when?

(and by the way, why are you committed to pay for your brother’s studies?)

anita