Dear Liz:

“do  you think we could benefit from regular counseling?” – from quality regular short term (or long term) counseling- absolutely, most people would.

“Throughout our two year relationship I did always feel frustrated with him- why does he say he’s going to do things he doesn’t do? Why.. is he so judgmental and yet not very creative.. I just didn’t see him being passionate about anything.. I’d told him a year in he needed to take better care of himself”-

– I want to understand better, therefore I ask regarding this quote:

1. Can you give me examples of things he said he’ll do but didn’t do?

2. Can you give me examples of him being judgmental?

3. How was he “not very creative”?

4. Can you elaborate on him not “being passionate about anything”?

5. How did he not take care of himself?

anita