Hi Anita, thank you for reaching out!

1. According to him the last time he dated someone was high school, he is now 25. After that he stayed single till he met someone that was worth his time. He said I’m the first woman he gets along with without getting “bored”, first woman that didn’t have trust issues towards him, someone he trusted, someone honest.. etc..

2. Before i met him i used to not “love” myself. I was insecure within myself and physically, very impatient, if things didn’t go my way then it wasn’t right. He is a trainer (side job) and he helped me with my working out journey, helped me felt more secure, always reminded how important my little progress was, helped me understand how things take time.

I assumed he hasn’t learned anything in our relationship because during an argument we had after me expressing my feelings i asked him what did he learned from the conversation we had and he said “nothing.. now i just know i need to be careful with what i say” which was a pretty disappointing answer because i thought he would understand what he needed to work on after our talk. PLUS, in general he is the type of guy that thinks his way is the right way. Which is why we bump heads sometimes, because that’s not how life work.